My mom and I disagree about my life path, what should I do?

It is simple as this.......you must pay the cost to be the boss. As an independent woman....I take full responsibility for my own mistakes......if I try something and I fail.....I don't look for my parents to bail me out. We all make mistakes because we are human but when we mess up we have to suffer our own consequences. The problem that I see with a lot of young people and their parents is that a lot of young people want to be grown when it is convenient for them. If you want your mom to respect you and you want to live your life your way......then you are going to have to move out and be grown and take care of yourself completely without depending on your mom in any kind of way. Anybody that has to bail you out every time you mess up has a right to complain.