What characteristics would I expect to find in a Man, who delivers 'Doses of Reality"...?

FREEDOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM, good evening, LOL, courtship can hold memories that are hard to equal, these are the times when BOTH genders are on their toes, and of course this can create some very cherished moments, and bravado on both sides, like a very colorful male bird strutting his given make-up, or a Woman who preps and worries about every single hair, not one out of place, careful with the words they speak, so to not offend, eyes locked on, ears perked up, the Heart racing with love, the Mind searching for a moment to share, what kind of traits ? LOL, a laugh, a smile, a little fun, freedom of spirit, and the knowledge to keep the other one free, to journey with this in Mind and Heart, free in spirit, and someone to play with in a world full of iniguity, I kiss your hand with a school buss ! LOL